Dilan - Milea (SPOILER ALERT)
"Aku ramal. Nanti, kamu akan jadi pacarku." Dilan, 1990, Bandung
So, I watched Dilan series (1990, 1991, Milea: Suara dari Dilan)
I gotta admit that Indonesia Language is puitis dan mudah untuk dibuai rasa sebab sounds so romantic. Macam Bahasa Melayu baku gitu haha.
These movies are kind of cringeeeeey - bulu roma meremang sumpah. All the love-dovey scenes and sometimes unnecessaries flashback haha eee.
Tapi ada lah moral valuenya. But, still cringe gitu.
Dilan and Milea ni budak sekolah. And Dilan approached Milea. She just moved to Bandung from Jakarta. So, macam hotstuff gitu la geng. Ok tu ok la dia suka en. But, this Milea girl is garit, man :(
When Dilan approached her, she liked it when SHE ALREADY HAD A BOYFRIEND YA.
Also, in Milea, SHE IS SOMEONE'S FIANCEE AND SHE STILL BERINDU-RINDUAN PADA DILAN....I MEAN THEY WERE ON THE PHONE AND SHE TOLD HIM THAT....
I----am mad? HAHAH
Thank God Dilan bukan manusia yang tiada common sense. So, he did not tell Milea that he's single and he loves her still. The movies aren't happy ending lah for the main actors.
There are things to learn from the movies;
1. COMMUNICATE
2. COMMUNICATE
3. COMMUNICATE
4. COMMUNICATE DON'T ASSUME
5. DON'T ASSUME
6. DON'T ASSUME AND JUMP INTO YOUR OWN EFFIN CONCLUSION
7. GUNA AKAL!
ok see what u need in a relationship? Never assume. tapi ya ofc this problem occurred when you are in school kit. Budak lagi kan, so I understand the reasons why they are acting like that in a relationship hahah. Baru nak up kan.
But, this story shows that, no matter how much you actually want someone to be with you,
if you aren't meant to be with them, you just won't be with them. No matter how hard you tried. And I just want everyone to know that it is okay to fail in a relationship - nothing is definite. We should try every way possible to stay forever, but sometimes things happened and you guys are just not meant to be together. Some people are meant to be in your memories :')
Jadi, bust yang bercinta tu, good luck! Try your best and do the best for your relationship!
But, if it hurts you and caused you cried more than you smile, you probably need a break and ask Him for petunjuk, alright :D Semoga yang baik-baik aja bust semua yang berpacaran <3
xx, shasha